I know a woman who was married to an abusive man and separated from him for a period of time. She gave him time and space to make some changes. Ultimately, he wanted to stay married but she was not willing to stay married until he got some serious help. Everyone is different. This was what was right for her. Luckily, her husband pulled through and changed the way he dealt with his problems. Their first few years were rough, but they have enjoyed many happy years together since reuniting. They have two beautiful children and are happy. The children are being raised in a safe, loving environment.
I think this might be rare, but it is possible. I think the important key to this success story is that the wife left while the husband worked on things. She worked on things too. If a couple is not functioning while they are together, it is sometimes necessary to separate.
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